Author: benmeyer

  • Friday, April 11, 2025 7:00am

    After spending the last 6 nights overnight at the hospital, we convinced Darcy to spend the night at their air bnb. Got a few more questions answered. He has 4 nurses tonight. One to manage his patient care, one to manage his Ecmo machine, a neuro nurse to manage his phenobarbital (seizure med) and pupil exams, and one learning Ecmo. Normally he would have just 2 nurses. So lots of extra hands to better care for him! His nurses sat right outside his room all night, so that was comforting. They’ve really all been great answering my questions.

    He’s on a continuous phenobarbital drip for possible seizures since 4/8. Not abnormal for a head injury. The neuro nurse came back in and said she couldn’t find this in his chart, so she’d ask the dr this morning. They are continuing to monitor his EEG brain waves and watch for seizures.

    His CT scan done Wednesday night on his way to the new unit did not show a blood clot (so no pulmonary embolism).

    He’ll be on contact and droplet precautions until sat probably, when his virus should be gone. They said the adeno virus is like a cold. We aren’t sure if he ever had that H flu after all? He continues to be on antibiotics and a steroid. No fevers. His Ecmo machine has a heater on it that helps to regulate his temperatures and ensures that the blood returning back to the heart is warmed.

    His blood gases are improved, but they continue to draw labs from his arterial line every 6hrs to check his kidney and liver function, red blood cells, WBC’s, and blood gases. A continued concern is that his sodium level is high. Tonight it was 173 around 0100. Yesterday as high as 170. They switched him to a different type of IV fluid solution called D5W (dextrose 5%) instead of the free water flushes in his OG tube to see if this will help bring it down. Their goal is to keep his sodium level >150, but no more than 160.

    They are turning him every 2 hrs, assessments every 4 hrs, pupils hourly. These have remained stable, meaning they are both reactive and within a certain range of each other. The best part of the night is when they gave him a bath around 215 while they played Seth’s favorite music from “Pitbull.”

    Seth is still on plenty of sedation including Versed, but no longer the paralytic medication. Also Oxycodone & Dilaudid (pain and sedation). Pentobarb is being given to keep his ICP pressures down in his brain. He got his bolt taken out yesterday afternoon, so they are no longer monitoring them, so they can focus more on his lung recovery. The goal is to wean him off this after 24-48 hrs. Then they will slowly reduce his sedation meds, so that he is awake while on ECMO. They prefer patients to be awake on ECMO, which would be him opening his eyes and then going back to sleep.

    The respiratory therapist said they took him off of Nitrous oxide tonight, which is good that he’s not needing it! This is a vasodilator that dilates the blood vessels in your heart and lungs to get more oxygen. They are more tolerant for lower oxygen levels. They’ve been around upper 80’s to low 90’s. May not exactly match up with levels on the ECMO machine. Seth is still on a ventilator, but the settings are low for muscle memory, so that his lungs don’t forget how to work. The ECMO machine is still doing all the work for his lungs. Seth’s heart is still strong and pumping blood like it should be on its own w/o support.

    Kidney function remains good, and he’s putting out plenty of urine. He is still on a diuretic and a low dose of blood pressure medication. His liver enzymes are a little elevated, but they are focused more on his PT/INR levels to be within range (for blood clotting)

    They started tube feedings tonight around midnight at a slow rate to make sure Seth’s gut stays healthy. Meds can slow his intestine motility, so they’ll start slow. Still having bowel movements, and they’ll expect more now that he’s on tube feedings.

    His Ecmo machine is checked hourly to ensure that no clots develop in the tubing because they don’t have him on blood thinners anymore (that normally patients are on to prevent the tubes from getting clogged from extra coagulation). This is to help protect his brain from more bleeding.

    He has been having daily chest X-rays, so had another this morning. Showed pneumothorax as before, but needs to get read from radiologist. Chest tube still on right side.

    Things to pray for today:

    1) Improved chest xray results

    2) Lower Sodium levels

    3) No clots in his ECMO circuit

    4) Continued stable pupil checks and vital signs

    5) Continued stable blood gases (Lactic acid 1.3 this am- good)

    6) Rest for Seth and the remainder of his family

    Update 7:15am

    ICU drs just rounded. Right sided pneumothorax is worse, but they aren’t sure why bc his chest tube seems to be functioning. Overall, aeration is a little better. Ecmo settings good. Need to continue to treat his high sodium levels. They’ve gave him so much sodium from a neuro standpoint to help his brain. Need to ask the neuro team about seizures. His WBC count is still elevated, but it has been. He has 2-3 more days of antibiotics, and still on steroids. Will repeat the echocardiogram today to check his heart. Overall, a little better aeration of his lungs on the chest xray.

    Update 7:20am

    Neuro came in. Sodium is still 172 (they want it 150-160). Pupils still reactive, which is good and is all they expect right now. He is on so much Pentobarb that turns his brain off essentially. So they don’t expect any movt’s from him or neurological signs until a minimum of 72 hrs once it is turned completely off. It’ll need to be weaned slowly. The drs will decide what to do today. They have not seen any seizures since he has been here, but the Pentobarb can also mask any as well. It is a very strong drug.

    – Aunt Kerry

    We continue to ask for just family at the hospital. Thank you.

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  • Thursday, April 10, 2025 6:36pm

    Three years ago we went to the Answers in Genesis Creation Museum and Ark in Kentucky. It must have impacted Seth a lot because he’s always wanted to go back and possibly work there.

    A friend forwarded this video of what God has made and is an interesting view of what he watches over every minute. From the vast universe to the nucleus of our cells, God created it all with precise detail and all for a purpose. Keep praying cell by cell.

    -Darcy

    Lord God,

    As these trials have come upon Seth, look upon him with favor and grant him boundless measures of your grace & healing. Strengthen his heart, heal his lungs, and cause the life sustaining machines to work in unison with your healing hands. 

    As we retire from this day, we leave him in your hands just as we do each day. 

    In Jesus Name, Amen.

    -Dave

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  • Thursday, April 10, 2025 3:30pm

    Bolt is out. It was delayed for 20 min because they lost the wrench. It is very ironic because Dave is always looking for lost tools too after the boys use them.

    The ECMO is pumping 4 liters of blood per minute.

    The nurses are fabulous, they are constantly asking if we need anything or if we have questions. We have to wear gowns, masks and gloves in his room.

    Pix attached is of a sign made by good friend, Jeff. It’s in our claimed corner of the waiting room.

    Yesterday 2 school friends from Seth’s class stopped by to see us. They are pre-med students. I thought of all the nurses and doctors that have given their care and attention to Seth. One day when they are taking care of patients of their own, I hope they always pray for wisdom and guidance in making difficult decisions and seek to honor God in all that they do.

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  • Thursday, April 10, 2025 7:23am – no visitors please

    Neurosurgeon came in. Brain pressures are being controlled. CT didn’t show bleeding. He will take out bolt today.

    ICU dr checking that circuits flowing properly, not clotting, and parameters are at goal which I think they are. There is an issue with the right chest tube, but it looks a little better today than yesterday. X-ray didn’t show any improvement but he didn’t expect there to be.

    A swab from yesterday shows he has adeno virus. I’m not sure what that means yet, but nurses are wearing gowns and masks.

    I just looked up and saw a couple pictures on Seth’s wall that must have been missed when we switched rooms. A nurse must have taped them up. It is an old soccer picture and the hymn lyrics that his high school principal brought by. Because we haven’t had a chance to rehang the pictures from the other room, it was nice to see these two up there.

    My sister shared part of a prayer from St Patrick in the 5th century (St Patrick’s Breastplate).

    Christ with me

    Christ before me

    Christ behind me

    Christ in me

    Christ beneath me

    Christ above me

    Christ on my right

    Christ on my left

    Christ when I lie down

    Christ when I sit down

    Christ when I arise

    Christ in the heart of every man who thinks of me

    Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me

    Christ in every eye that sees me

    Christ in every ear that hears me

    -Darcy

    PS, I was asked to leave the room for Seth’s X-ray and while I was sitting in waiting area Danita’s husband happened to come down to check on us. As I type, she is in surgery from a complication.

    Now that we are on a new floor, I’m sure there will be a new list of people to pray for.

    As this has all been a whirlwind, for the next few days, we ask for no visitors at this time. It’ll be immediate family only.

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  • Wednesday, April 9, 2025 10:08pm

    We went in and saw Seth. They were still trying to settle him in. His Ecmo machine is taking care of his heart and lungs. They are starting him on a new medication for his ICP levels (cranial pressures are high), so neuro nurses were helping with that. They found out he has Influenza H, so now we all have to wear masks to protect us and him. Darcy asked what H meant and the nurses hadn’t heard of it either. Now we wait for the answer to that question and for CT results. Other numbers looked good on the monitor. 

    We’re truly grateful for all the visitors who have come by—it means a lot to us. At this time, we’d like to keep things limited to just close family.

    Pix of some items in Seth’s room.

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  • Wednesday, April 9, 2025 1:25pm

    May God breathe on Seth the breath of life.

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  • Wednesday, April 9, 2025 12:01 PM

    The medical team is planning to attempt another CT scan. They noted that his oxygen levels are currently stable, which is an improvement from the last time they attempted the scan—during that previous attempt, laying him flat caused his oxygen levels to drop and his intracranial pressure (ICP) to rise. This time, they want to proceed with caution by doing a trial of laying him down again while closely monitoring his vitals.

    During the trial, his oxygen dipped and ICP increased again, so the nurses quickly returned him to an upright position, and his vital signs rebounded. Despite these challenges, the team still wants to move forward with the CT scan. To make it safer, they plan to administer a paralytic to help make his lungs more compliant with the ventilator. This should help maintain better oxygenation while he’s lying down.

    A positive sign is that he has been breathing on his own, though at a rate that’s too fast. The CT scan itself should only take about five minutes, but the team is most concerned about the brief period when he needs to remain flat. They plan to scan his brain, lungs, and spleen to gather more information about his condition.

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  • Tuesday, April 8, 2025 12:00am

    May the Lord bless Seth and keep him; may the Lord make his face shine upon him and be gracious to him; may the Lord lift up his countenance upon him and give him peace. Num 6:24-26

    Hold your loved ones close today

    Prayer said with Seth tonight: I thank you, my heavenly Father, through Jesus Christ, Your dear Son, that You have graciously kept me this day; and I pray that You would forgive me all my sins where I have done wrong, and graciously keep me this night. For into Your hands, I commend myself, my body and soul, and all things. Let Your holy angel be with me, that the evil foe may have no power over me. Amen.

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  • Tuesday, April 8, 2025 7:00pm

    Cardiologist suspects pulmonary embolism. They are going to do CT scan immediately instead of treating blindly with blood thinners. Seth hasn’t tolerated CT scans well as his pressures go crazy when he’s laying down. God’s got you, Buddy!

    Please listen and read the lyrics of this beautiful song while Seth is in his scan.

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  • Tuesday, April 8, 2025 6:00pm

    Ultrasound showed no clot in Seth’s legs. We are still waiting to hear from cardiologist about a blood clot. Antibiotics were changed. Sometimes with a lot of fluids in the lungs, a patient is put on their stomach to relieve the pressure and allow the back of the lungs to inflate more. Of course, this isn’t an option for Seth. He started a fever again which is controlled by the Arctic Sun, which is a system that runs water thru bags and keeps his temperature controlled. He’d probably make a joke about being an extra “cool” guy now.

    6:06 HR 112 ICP 19 CPP 70

    -Darcy

    Update on prayer board friend, Danita. She was removed off of life support and said I love you to her husband. Most of her colon was removed and she has a plate around her ribs. Her husband, Josh is appreciative of the thoughts and prayers. He was also hurt in the accident and has been sleeping at the hospital this whole time with her.

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